Many people have multiple experiences, some over an entire lifetime. Others may only have one event. One person in a household may be singled out or entire families may share events. Screen memories may have been utilized to keep the person from awareness of what actually happened.
Unlike the NDE, the UFO experience is not widely recognized by the medical nor the scientific community, and often not by society at large. Reporting such an event can bring ridicule, recriminations, and/or being ostracism, or even being labeled as mentally ill in some situations.
Therefore the person can come back with little or no support from their communities or families to help them integrate their experience or the aftereffects. Few people are trained to help them work through their experience.
Things that may surface after an abduction or sighting.
1. MOST PEOPLE DO
NOT HAVE IMMEDIATE MEMORY OF THE INCIDENT AND OFTEN HAVE AFTER-EFFECTS THAT DO
NOT MAKE SENSE TO THEM. SOME ARE REMEMBERING AFTER MANY
YEARS.
MANY WERE
TOLD BY THE CONTACTEES TO FORGET THE EVENT OR THEY RELEGATE
THE MEMORY
TO THEIR
UNCONSCIOUS BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID TO EXPOSE IT TO THEMSELVES
OR TO
ANYONE ELSE.
2. MOST EXPERIENCERS FEAR THEY WILL NOT BE BELIEVED AND/OR THEY DO NOT BELIEVE IT THEMSELVES. MANY FEAR REJECTION OR BEING LABELED AND/OR DOUBT THEIR SANITY.
3. MANY FEEL TRAUMA DUE TO BEING KIDNAPPED, INVADED, ABUSED, OR TRAUMATIZED BY EXAMINATIONS, IMPLANTS, AND THE ABDUCTION ITSELF. MANY FEEL THEY HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY INVADED, HELD AGAINST THEIR WILL. MANY SUFFER PAIN.
4. PROBLEMS CAN ARISE IN THE FAMILY BECAUSE OF THE CHANGES IN VALUES, ATTITUDES, AND INTERESTS THAT OFTEN TAKE PLACE IN THE INDIVIDUAL’S LIFE AFTER AN EVENT. DIFFICULTY WITH FAMILY UNITY AND ACCEPTANCE. WITHOUT PROFESSIONAL HELP THESE CHANGES CAN CREATE FEAR AND FEELINGS OF ISOLATION.
5. MANY HAVE DIFFICULTY FITTING INTO DAILY LIFE BECAUSE OF THESE CHANGES.
6. MANY EXPERIENCE FEAR OF RIDICULE.
7. MANY HAVE DIFFICULTY WITH CHANGING BELIEFS, VALUES AND LIFE PURPOSE.
8. MANY HAVE FEAR OF BECOMING A TOOL OR CAPTIVE SUBJECT OF THESE UNKNOWN PERSONS, THUS LOSING CONTROL OVER ONE’S LIFE. WILL IT HAPPEN AGAIN? WHY THEM?
THESE ARE TWO VERY DIFFERENT APPROACHES AND THE NEEDS AND PREFERENCES OF THE EXPERIENCER MUST BE TAKEN INTO ACCOUNT. IN PLACES OF GREAT TRAUMA, THE THERAPY NEEDS MUST BE MET FIRST TO ALLOW PERSON TO MAINTAIN DAILY LIFE.
HELPING PERSON MUST HAVE EXCELLENT LISTENING, WITNESSING, FEEDBACK AND CLARITY IN COMMUNICATION. THEY SHOULD HAVE TRAINING/EXPERIENCE IN WORKING IN THESE AREAS.
THEY NEED AN OPEN MIND, THEY MUST BE NON-JUDGMENTAL, ABLE TO CREATE A STRONG TRUST BASE AND SAFE ENVIRONMENT FOR AND WITH THE CLIENT. PREFERABLY SOMEONE WITH STRONG HYPNOSIS SKILLS TO HELP BRING BACK THE EXPERIENCE FOR THOSE CLIENTS WHO HAVE BURIED THE MEMORIES.
SUPPORT GROUP CONTACT FOR CONSENSUAL VALIDATION OF EVENTS AND COMMON (SHARED)
EMOTIONAL RESPONSES IS VERY HELPFUL TO BREAK DOWN ALIENATION AND PERSONAL DETACHMENT ON THE PART OF THE CLIENT.
PHYSICAL
(SOMATIC):
EXAMINATIONS, IMPLANTATIONS, HEALING, TEMPORARY PARALYSIS, DIZZINESS,
NAUSEA,
VOMITING, HEADACHE, BLINDNESS
EMOTIONAL
(AFFECTIVE REACTIONS):
FEARS, LIFE VALUES, FEELINGS
COGNITIVE STYLE:
PSYCHIC MANIFESTATIONS AND PARA-NORMAL EVENTS IN THEIR LIVES, INSTRUCTION
FOR A MISSION
OR A TASK IN THIS LIFE
PERSONALITY AND
CHARACTEROLOGICAL CHANGES:
OFTEN SEE INTERESTS, DIET, VALUES AND SOCIAL CHANGE. PEOPLE BECOME MORE
INVOLVED IN
SERVICE, AND HAVE FOUND A NEW PURPOSE IN LIFE.
SPIRITUAL CHANGES
IN THOSE UNDER-GOING UFO EXPERIENCES
EXPERIENCERS BELIEVE THAT THEY HAVE BEEN PROFOUNDLY AFFECTED - PHYSIOLOGICALLY,
PSYCHOLOGICALLY AND SPIRITUALLY THROUGH THE ENCOUNTERS THEY
HAVE
UNDERGONE. THESE ARE SOME OF THE WAYS THEY FEEL CHANGED.